Hello! My name is Tristan, and...
I help people make the changes that really matter to them.
I am the guy who will ask you the questions you need to find your answers to "What is it that you really want? No, like, reeally!". And then I'll be the thorn in your side, believing in you, that you can make it happen.
Why? Because I have always been a change-maker and an experimenter. It really inspires me to see people creating changes and taking action for things that really matter to them.
I have been very fortunate to get to work with some of the best life-coaches in the world over the last 10 years. I have learned so much, and am so grateful for the steps I have been able to take to create the life that I really want. Passing on the gifts is just part of the journey.
Change starts with you leaning in, and taking one step forward.
There is no day like today!
I'm looking forward to meeting you and supporting you on your journey!
-Tristan
Find your 'x on the map',
Take action!
Experiment!
Create the Relationships you really want
For the last 10 years I have been immersed in coaching, and group workshops & trainings, learning about creating change in life from the inside out. Starting with my own life, and coaching others along the way.
For me it is so clear I can only offer bridges to others that I have already walked over myself. So I carry a strong ethos of 'walking my talk'. I live in community at Ontree (www.ontreecentre.org), I have a 10-year committed relationship with the love of my life - Ana Norambuena (we are co-founders of RelationShift!), and two step children, one of whom has just left home, and the other is 14 years old and immersed in the challenges and joys of teenagehood!
I was able to clear huge space inside my self to write and focus on the projects that light my heart up. If you get the chance to be coached by Tristan - GO! your life will take on a whole other level of aliveness. I can not recommend Tristan's coaching more highly.
Millicent
The compassion and empathy Tristan showed me helped with my healing and learning to trust again. I felt he was there for me 100 per cent. Thank you Tristan.
Mary Ann
★★★★★
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What I love about sessions with Tristan is his deep, non judgmental presence. A presence in which I feel held to fully be myself, regardless of where I am at in the moment and from that place I can unfold and feel what is inside of me. I found deep healing in spaces with him and I appreciate his fierce commitment to helping me find out what really matters to me in my life, so I can start living and creating a life that is truly and authentically my own.
After sessions with him, I feel clearer, grounded and I have more zest for life and new possibilities to try on and create shifts.
Lukas
★★★★★
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